Daily Devotional for Small Group Discussion: Parched

Discussion Questions 

1. Did you set a spiritual discipline for yourself at the start of Lent? How is it going? 

2. What were you spiritually thirsty for when Lent began? What are you thirsting for now? 

3. Are you tempted at times to give up on faith—perhaps because the faith journey is tumultuous, or perhaps because you feel like you are failing in faith? 

I stretch out my hands to you; my soul thirsts for you like a parched land. Selah. – Psalm 143:6 (NRSVUE) 

The further we get into Lent, the harder it is to keep up with the practices I set for myself. I forget why I chose the particular thing; not the practice itself, but the motivation. If you’re still here reading, but having to remind yourself why, you’ll know what I mean.  

Why did this particular practice seem like a good idea five weeks ago?  

I remember my failures. If I seek some inner change, some private growth attempt, why did I think giving up caffe mochas would bring me closer to God? It only made me cranky; my daughter made me promise never to do it again. But since then I’ve learned, whether we’re giving something up or taking something on, the reckoning will always come.  

The psalmist describes a desire that would not be visible to others, a thirst for God so deep the soul experiences drought conditions. This far along in Lent we are in deep with Jesus, making the final turn toward Jerusalem. It might be that the commitments we thought would bring us closer to God have left us stretched out, as thirsty as Jesus must have been during his forty days in the wilderness. It’s tempting, sometimes, to give up on it. If we can’t do it perfectly, we may think, what’s the point?  

Why did my practice seem like a good idea? Why did yours?  

What were we thirsty for?  

Maybe the point of the practice is not to win Lent, but to reach this moment of feeling stretched and parched and uneasy, and to keep practicing anyway.  

Prayer
Spirit of God, I stretch myself towards you; help me to keep stretching. Amen.