I Know a Guy
I know a person in Christ who fourteen years ago was caught up to the third heaven…On behalf of such a one I will boast, but on my own behalf I will not boast, except of my weaknesses. – 2 Corinthians 12:2a, 5 (NRSVUE)
Next time you’re low-key trying to impress someone with your expertise or general awesomeness, try fabricating an anonymous friend who embodies your best qualities: “I know a guy…” Add a self-deprecating dig to maintain an air of humility while gaining some credibility-by-association. Of course, you risk making yourself look bad, and people might see through your story. But hey—it worked for Paul!
Self-proclaimed prophets came through Corinth, boasting of mystical experiences and great strength. But the image was quickly shattered. Paul needed to convince this skeptical crew that he was legit. They were already iffy on him: good writer, but not a good speaker; not that impressive in-person, kinda short. So instead of listing his own bona fides, Paul boasted of an unnamed “person in Christ” he knew who witnessed the holiest of realms, leaving them sufficiently impressed. Wonder if they realized he was talking about himself?
Sometimes we create a more credible (yet fictional) character for self-protection, insulating ourselves against potential consequences: “Asking for a friend.” “I know someone.” “People are saying.” When we hide our truths, mask our gifts, or trade responsibility for deniability, we do damage to ourselves and our relationships. What was a helpful rhetorical device for Paul can be a hurtful deception for us. Owning our whole selves is a strength that often comes with vulnerability, which can be experienced as weakness. But that’s weakness worth boasting about.
Prayer
God, I know a person in Christ who needs your strength. It’s me, O Lord. Amen.
About the AuthorChris Mereschuk (he/him) is an Unsettled Pastor and the Founder of RevCJM, LLC, specializing in church vitality and Legacy consulting and coaching.